How does one recognize distinguish between a "genuine" want and an "influenced" want? 2 answers

Asked by kips 7 months ago

1. 
   Busybee

   Good question Kips I guess genuine for me would be knowing that my want was in some way benefiting someone, some good cause or something meaningful.

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   Tigerlight

   I don't think there is anything wrong with 'wanting' something...it's how you go about getting it, at the expense of others or the environment, or at your own expense...that really matters. I have daily 'wants' and just stop for a little while & ask, do I really want it, or is it just a fleeting idea and can I get it at no one's expense or detriment. It's surprising how often I stop at the first question, deciding it's not really necessary, I've learned I can be fickle and impetuous, not an attractive trait, but I'm trying to accept that I'm human & examine my motives before buying or consuming.

   Now that sounds like a lecture...it's not, but thought I'd share my way of trying to be a citizen.